sinewandshoulderblades asked: ****To add, I made kind of the same mistake recently, is why I'm so adamant. I was babysitting my 3 yo nephew for 10 hours a day, for a week, and started bringing all my own meals--- and feeding my nephew some of my fruit and veg. When I made a comment about not treating him with all the "processed" cookies and cakes they have there, it started a huge feud with my sister, and after a few months she's barely speaking to me :/
I recommended that she stay away from those foods and eat whatever was healthy that she brought over. I never told her the kid she watches needs to eat healthier too. Nor did i tell her to feed her food to the child. idk how this relates?